How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 02:43
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Why is my ex trying to provoke an argument with me?
Ask yourself:
What I need from you?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Making more friends is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
Why do men like low maintenance women?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What can you do if you are a full-grown adult, but never experienced being a child?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
What are some of your shocking stories?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Why do people procrastinate and how can they stop?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
That's it for today.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.